Memorial Suggestions
Memorial Suggestions for Families and Friends Gathering to Watch a Scattering Ceremony
At Aerial Ashes, we understand that the scattering of a loved one’s ashes is a deeply personal and significant event. To help you create a meaningful and heartfelt ceremony, we've compiled some thoughtful suggestions for families and friends wishing to gather and honour their loved one during the scattering.
Planning the Ceremony
Begin by selecting a location that held special meaning for the deceased. This could be a favourite park, beach, garden, or any place that resonates with cherished memories. Once you've chosen the spot, consider the following elements to personalise the ceremony:
- Readings and Music: Incorporate poems, prayers, or favourite songs that reflect the individual's life and spirit.
- Personal Tributes: Invite family members and friends to share stories, memories, or messages that celebrate the person's legacy.
- Symbolic Gestures: Enhance the ceremony with symbolic acts such as lighting candles, releasing biodegradable balloons, or planting a tree in memory.
On the Day of the Ceremony
On the day of the scattering, our team will arrive at the chosen location ahead of the scheduled time to prepare for the event. Here's what you can expect:
- Arrival and Setup:Our team will ensure that the area is set up appropriately, with any necessary equipment and materials ready for the ceremony.
- Welcome and Introduction:A brief introduction will be given, outlining the proceedings and encouraging participation from all attendees.
- Scattering Ceremony:The ashes will be scattered in a respectful and dignified manner, allowing attendees to witness and partake in the final farewell.
- Commemorative Actions: After the scattering, families may choose to engage in additional memorial activities, such as placing flowers, writing messages, or having a moment of reflection.
After the Ceremony
Following the scattering, families often find comfort in gathering for a reception or meal to share memories and support one another. This can be an opportunity to:
- Share Stories: Reminisce about the good times spent with the deceased, keeping their memory alive.
- Display Memorabilia: Set up a table with photographs, personal items, or a memory book for guests to contribute to.
- Offer Comfort: Provide a space for guests to express their feelings and offer support to one another.
Additional Considerations
- Legal Permissions: We ensure that any necessary permissions are obtained for the scattering location, especially if it's a public or protected area.
- Environmental Impact: Choose biodegradable materials for any symbolic gestures to minimise environmental impact.
- Guest Comfort: Consider the comfort of your guests by providing seating, refreshments, and shelter if needed.
By thoughtfully planning and personalising the scattering ceremony, you can create a meaningful tribute that honours your loved one and provides a space for healing and
remembrance. If you need assistance or further guidance, our team at Aerial Ashes is here to support you every step of the way.